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Dilemmas.60 would you rather questions

Would-you-rather choices with no easy way out.

25–40 min 60 cards Solo or 1–2
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Would you live a life without surprises or a life that is pure chaos?

About the Dilemmas deck

Every card in Dilemmas is a choice between two things you would rather not choose between. A job you love with poor pay, or one you hate with great pay? Lose your sense of taste or your sense of smell? Save one person you love or five strangers?

The only rule is that nobody gets to say "neither." Answers come fast, and the conversation happens when people explain them. The deck mixes silly choices with a few heavy ones, so it works for a group of friends and for two people on a long walk.

All 60 would you rather questions

  1. Would you live without music or without movies?

  2. Would you live one day 100 years in the future or 100 years in the past?

  3. Would you take the ability to read minds or the ability to fly?

  4. Would you want to know your exact date of death or the exact cause of death?

  5. A year without the internet or a year without a warm shower?

  6. Would you rather do a job you love with poor pay, or a job you hate with great pay?

  7. Should you tell your friend a truth that crushes them, or let them live happily in a lie?

  8. Should you live in a place where it is always too hot, or a place where it is always too cold?

  9. Would you want to forget your best friend or forget who you are yourself?

  10. Would you take $50,000 right now or $1,000,000 in 10 years?

  11. Would you rather live in a big world alone or in a small village with the love of your life?

  12. Would you see only nightmares every night or not dream at all?

  13. Would you lose your sense of taste or your sense of smell?

  14. Would you be able to talk to animals, but no longer to humans?

  15. Would you rather be really famous or completely unknown?

  16. Would you be able to always detect a lie or always get away with a lie yourself?

  17. Would you stop time, but be unable to move anything, or rewind time, but be unable to change anything?

  18. Would you rather walk backwards for the rest of your life or sing everything you say?

  19. You find a wallet with $5,000. Do you return it or keep it?

  20. Would you want to see your own future or the world's future?

  21. Would you live a life without surprises or a life that is pure chaos?

  22. Would you rather feel a small physical pain constantly or a great emotional pain once a year?

  23. Would you rather be mediocre at everything or a genius at one thing but bad at everything else?

  24. Would you rather eat only one dish for the rest of your life or never be allowed to eat your favorite food again?

  25. Would you rather travel to space or to the deepest part of the ocean?

  26. Would you have to wear the same clothes every day or totally different style clothes every day?

  27. Would you save one person from the past or know one big secret from the future?

  28. Would you give up your smartphone or your car for the rest of your life?

  29. Would you rather be happy yourself in a world where everyone else is unhappy, or vice versa?

  30. Would you know everything said about you behind your back, or know nothing about it?

  31. Would you rather have a perfect memory of the past or the ability to remember everything coming (e.g., exams)?

  32. Can you speak all the world's languages fluently or can you speak with animals?

  33. Would you sleep 10 hours every night but always be a bit tired, or 4 hours and be completely energetic?

  34. Would you find true love but lose all your friends, or keep your friends but never find love?

  35. Would you double your current assets or double your current amount of free time?

  36. Would you rather be extremely intelligent but unattractive, or extremely good-looking but stupid?

  37. Would you be able to control your own emotions perfectly or other people's emotions?

  38. Would you have to lie every time you speak, or always speak the truth?

  39. Would you have to live in a place with permanent darkness, or a place where the sun shines 24/7?

  40. Would you have to eat spicy food at every meal or completely tasteless food at every meal?

  41. Would you be able to live your life over from the start or jump 20 years into the future?

  42. Would you be able to swap bodies with anyone for a day or stay in your own?

  43. Would you have to say every thought out loud or not be able to speak at all?

  44. Would you know the world's biggest secret but not be able to tell anyone, or live knowing nothing?

  45. Would you save one loved one or five strangers?

  46. Would you be able to turn invisible or teleport?

  47. Would you have to use only slow dial-up internet for the rest of your life or no internet at all?

  48. Would you listen to only one song for the rest of your life or no music at all?

  49. Would you live a short and happy life or a long and mediocre one?

  50. Would you rather be a leader loved by all or a dictator feared by all?

  51. Would you lose the ability to feel physical pain or emotional pain?

  52. Would you tell your best friend that their partner is cheating on them, or let them figure it out themselves?

  53. Would you rather be a small animal (like a mouse) or a large animal (like an elephant)?

  54. Would you have to dress only in a clown suit for the rest of your life or never be able to laugh?

  55. Would you give $100,000 to charity or keep it for yourself without anyone knowing?

  56. Would you lose your sight or your hearing?

  57. Would you end world hunger or all wars?

  58. Would you be able to see into the future but not change it, or see nothing?

  59. Would you be always happy yourself but no one liked you, or loved by all but unhappy yourself?

  60. Would you rather do physically heavy work or mentally extremely burdensome work?

How to play Dilemmas

  1. Start the deck and read the first card out loud. Whoever wants to answer goes first, or go around the group.
  2. Swipe left or tap the arrow for the next card, and swipe right to go back. Skip any card that doesn't suit the moment. There are no points.
  3. Follow-up questions count. If an answer is interesting, stay on it before moving to the next card.

Going through every card takes about 25–40 min, but there's no need to finish in one sitting. The deck runs in your browser with nothing to install, and your place is saved on this device, so you can stop and pick it up later.