Warm questions for the two of you, from the early days to what comes next.
How can I help you achieve your personal goal?
Relationship is the gentler of the two couples decks. Some cards look back at how you started, some look at how things are now (which of your habits your partner finds funniest, how each of you likes to be close), and some look ahead to the best date night you could actually make happen.
A few touch harder ground, such as money, jealousy and the thing that was hardest to compromise on. Take them if you're both in the mood and skip them if you're not. When you want questions that go further, move on to Relationship Deep Dive.
What is the best date night we could make happen?
Which trait do you value most in me?
What is our favorite shared memory?
What would you like to achieve together in the next five years?
When did you last feel that I support you fully?
What is your favorite way to be close (e.g., hugging, holding hands)?
When did you last feel loved?
How could we handle disagreements better?
How do you think we have grown as a couple?
What is a secret dream you haven't told me?
What new thing would you like to try together?
What small thing I do makes you happy?
Which of my habits do you find the funniest?
What is the biggest challenge we have overcome together?
Which inside joke of ours always makes you laugh?
What did I do recently that made you admire me?
What could I do more of so you would feel loved?
What do you miss most about when we first got together?
In what situation do you feel safest with me?
What is intimacy to you other than sexually?
How can I help you achieve your personal goal?
What do you think is our greatest strength as a couple?
What is "our song"?
Is there something I have done that you haven't fully forgiven?
What is the biggest adventure you want to experience with me?
What is the most romantic gesture I have made?
What does the word family mean when you think about us?
How can we maintain connection during busy times?
How have you seen me change during our relationship?
What in our relationship are you most grateful for right now?
In what way do you feel your love is best received?
How do you want me to support you when you are stressed?
How much alone time and space do you need in the relationship?
What does money mean to you and how does it affect our shared decisions?
What makes you jealous and how do you handle it?
What was your first impression of me, and has it changed?
What has been the hardest thing for you to compromise on?
What topic is the hardest for you to talk about with me?
What does your dream retirement look like with me?
What is the best part of our everyday life together?
What have you learned about yourself during this relationship?
What assumption about me turned out to be wrong?
How can we improve our intimate connection?
What quality in me do you admire that I might not see myself?
What small ritual should we start together?
What did we learn from our latest disagreement?
What need do you have that I haven't noticed to fulfill?
What thoughts do you have about parenthood (if relevant)?
When do you feel most vulnerable with me?
How would you like to be surprised?
When do you feel most connected to me?
When did I last disappoint you?
How can I be a better part of fulfilling your dreams?
How has your relationship with my family (or mine with yours) affected us?
If we could change one thing in our relationship, what would it be?
How do your past relationships affect how you act in our relationship?
What scares you most about us?
What is the most important promise we have made to each other?
Where would you like to travel with me where we haven't been yet?
What is a perfect evening with me like?
Going through every card takes about 25–40 min, but there's no need to finish in one sitting. The deck runs in your browser with nothing to install, and your place is saved on this device, so you can stop and pick it up later.